People may have many reasons for asking 'why should this or that happen in my life.' Every soul is different so we cannot readily give one answer that fits all. However, the spirit world have provided humanity with the simple gift of The Spirit Within, where each of us can make contact with our own spirit to unlock our secret potential and become aware.
This is something which exists for every being and you do not have to follow any religion to have access to it, as it remains your singular divine right as a spirit having a human experience.
The work on self is endless as we all explore our faults. We can lessen them and their effects on others, by paying greater attention to the fruits we can unlock through the simple peace and stillness we can meet within us. You can pray, take silent walks, or just be within the silence of self that is there to help you.
It remains the island of untold joy, is there to help you overcome adversity and bathe you in love from within you, so you may come to know the precious being you truly are.